Hot for her in Georgia

Hello Teelee, my question is about a relationship I am in with a girl that I love so much. She is gorgeous and makes me crazy inside. The only thing is she is married and never seems to want to put a move on the divorce. I don’t want to hassle her about it because she I don’t want her to feel like I am hounding about it and risk ending the relationship. I get chills when I look at her because she is so hot and I want to her to be my girlfriend if not more. I want her to get the divorce so we can move on but she hates going into it. She says she has done all she can do and is waiting for her husband to finalize some things. I think her husband is abusing her and I want to help her so bad. I want her to live with me but she says it is not a good idea right now but we can look forward to it later because she needs the health and financial benefits from her husband. When I am able to provide for her I want her to come with me. Should I push or just be patient so I don’t scare her off?  Hot for her in Georgia.

Well Hot for her in Georgia, Oh my goodness where do I begin: RED FLAGS ALL OVER THE PLACE!!!!!!!! RED ALERT*** LEVEL 4 BAD RED FLAG ALERT****

1.       She is married, lives with hubby, and stays for financial and benefits purposes?

2.       Dragging out a divorce.

3.       Does not want to talk about the divorce or discuss its progression.

4.       You keep mentioning she is hot.

5.       You never once mentioned compatibility, education, future outlook, potential,   temperament, family/kids, or LOVE…

6.      You also never mentioned if she cared about you at all.

7.       You think she is being abused by her husband.

My friend, you are totally wasting your time because of a girl you find “hot”. -Case closed-.

There is NO relationship between you and her, you are simply a quick outlet for attention she enjoys getting, but you are not, I repeat, not relationship potential for her and neither is she for you at all.

If you think she is being abused, she has a million resources she can contact to get her help in the appropriate fashion. You are not Rambo and you cannot save her.

In order to be in a relationship with someone that person better think you are the greatest thing on earth! This girl does not even know you exist outside of her own needs... sorry....

Men like you have little to no home training and are not used to seeing really attractive women. You are naïve, gullible, and at risk of getting crushed when she is done with you.

Sorry, but this is bad news all the way around… move on and find a lady who wants to be with you and is FREE of relationship hassles. You deserve so much better.

Good luck!

TeeLee